Today’s post is short and sweet, partially because of the nature of the questions asked, and partially because I am gosh darned exhausted by my work at the moment. Still – I didn’t want to let my kinky bunnies down.
– Day Twenty-Five –
How open are you about your kinks?
Uhm… I think the answer is obvious: very. I am an oversharer by nature. I am very enthusiastic and love to share things I love and enjoy. Sometimes people can get uncomfortable around me because of it – my filter isn’t always on.
– Day Twenty-Six –
What’s your opinion of online BDSM play?
It confuses me. I’m not sure how it works. I’ve only cybered over Skype once and I did not get much out of it. If anything, I prefer text based play, as it’s like reading an interactive piece of erotica. Unfortunately, in those cases, there is no guarantee that your wishes are respected. Also, some people write with appalling grammar and syntax and the English Literature major in me Just. Can’t. Deal. With it. I remember just giving up on chats when I was younger because I didn’t understand what someone was trying to get across to me (or rather, I did understand, but I was too much of a grammar snob to allow it to offend my retinas any further.) For instance, I remember someone who typed “yoru” about six times in one paragraph to mean “your” or “you’re” (he didn’t make that difference). I did not give him another chance to type and quit the conversation.
But via webcam, it’s just really low quality porn – and I certainly never look good on webcam. I do not like not looking my best when I Dom or sub (hello double negative!). It is a detail, but it matters to me.
– Day Twenty-Seven –
Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?
Hehe… yes they do… *evil grin*
I am a cosplay nerd, so I suppose you can imagine how cosplay will come into play in kink. For some who might not be aware, cosplay makes for some exceedingly fun roleplay.
Otherwise, my writing makes it into my kinky activities simply because I record them in text form for all the world to see (nudge, nudge, wink, wink). I also like to read during kink sessions to frustrate my subby-hubby and keep him salivating (or use him as an ottoman if he has been particularly bad).
I also love to sing and act, which are activities I can shoehorn into kink if I am in a particularly silly mood (my house is like a permanent Broadway musical no matter how you look at it). For instance, for each forgotten monologue line, my husband gets a spanking.
That’s it for today, lovelies!
I might not be posting tomorrow, as I have two days of intensive training at work. However, we’re in the final stretch of the Thirty Days of Kink, so expect some good stuff to come.